Tuesday, 17 June 2025

Richard James "Dick" Luker (1932-2025)

Richard James "Dick" Luker was the great-great-grandson of John Culbert and Mary Ward.


Dick Luker died 30 March 2025 in Windsor, Ontario, Canada, age 92. His niece, Judith Luker Massey wrote the following piece in his memory. Information for this piece was reviewed and provided by her father, Sam Luker (Dick Luker's brother.)

Dick Luker (left) and Sam Luker (right) born 1 July 1932 in London, Ontario, Canada.
 

Dad (Sam) and Uncle Dick were fraternal twins and they had a close bond. The twins were born July 1, 1932 in London, Ontario and were told by their mother, when they were young boys, that the Dominion Day parades and fireworks (later known as Canada Day) were really for their birthday.

Their mother Gladys (Hodgins) Luker did not realize that she was having twins. After Dick was born, the doctor said, “It is not over yet Gladys,” and Sam was born 11 minutes after. The twins often had friendly discussions about who was really the oldest. Sam almost died at birth from pneumonia and their mother Gladys said that Dick cried all the time Sam was in the hospital.

Dick and Sam's mother, Gladys (Hodgins) Luker (1894-1984). Gladys was the great-granddaughter of John Culbert & Mary Ward.

Sam and Dick skipped two grades and were placed into one of the first gifted classes in Ontario. They graduated high school when they were 15. They then went to London Normal School (a teachers college) and started teaching in one-room rural school houses not far from each other near Windsor.

Dick married Anne Taylor whom he met at Teacher’s College. Anne was from Windsor and so they settled down there, and Dick became a banker in Detroit, Michigan. Dick eventually became a vice-president.

Sam went to Western University in London (formerly the University of Western Ontario,) and after completing grad school, Sam became a clinical psychologist and then a professor of Family Studies at the University of Guelph. Sam married Melva Murphy from Midland, Ontario who worked as a nurse and supported him while he went to university. A scholarship and Melva’s nursing kept the young couple solvent.

Sam and Dick both liked to travel. Sam has calculated that he and Melva visited 95 different countries.

The two brothers also both enjoyed music. Sam liked pop standards and classical music while Dick had extensive knowledge and a collection of Dixieland Jazz. Dick was often contacted by radio stations and other groups to share information and borrow a record from his very large Dixieland record collection.

Both twins were bright, articulate and had happy childhoods and marriages. Although Dick lived in Windsor and Sam in Guelph, they remained close. With children and busy careers, they were not able to see each other as much as they wished. However, when they were able to get together, they talked nonstop and always had lots to share.

Dick’s death on March 30, 2025 was a blow to Sam. Dick had been calling out for Sam. Although Dick was lying down and not responsive, when he heard Sam’s voice on the phone, he opened his eyes and smiled. This was the last time the twins had an opportunity to connect before Dick died. 

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To read more about Dick Luker and his brother, Sam, and to see additonal photographs, let's return to a previous post on the Culbert Family History blog. Click here to read about Dick and his twin brother, Sam Luker. Dick's obituary can be found here.

DICK LUKER's FAMILY TREE:
Ancestors:
John Culbert & Mary Ward (great-great-grandparents)
Susan Culbert & Philip Crawley (great-grandparents)
Sarah Catherine Crawley & Samuel Hill Hodgins (grandparents)
Gladys Sarah Hodgins & Wilbert Luker (parents) 

Descendants (Children): 

Leslie (Luker) Agnew

Tim Luker 

Monday, 11 November 2024

Remembrance Day Through the Eyes of a Child

Milward Taylor "Mel" Culbert (1920-1958)

My father, Mel Culbert of Lucan, Ontario served as a Sergeant with the Royal Canadian Air Force (RCAF) from 1941-1945. He trained as a radar technician and wireless air gunner. He retrained as a draftsman because of health problems, and transferred from the training base at Trenton to a base on Avenue Road in Toronto. 

Mel and his wife Mary Elizabeth (Patrick) Culbert had three children: son Terry, daughter Dana, and daughter Mary Jane (me.) Sadly, my father died when I was a year old. I have no memory of him.

When I was a child, I had a Remembrance Day school assignment. This is the last paragraph of that assignment...

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Mel Culbert in his RCAF uniform.

Remembrance Day is a time for us to reflect on those who served our country. We will remember them.

Sunday, 17 March 2024

The Luck of the Irish

If anyone can be said to have "the luck of the Irish" on this Saint Patrick's Day, it's Jeff Small.

Jeff Small of Huntsville, Ontario, Canada

You'll recall that on 19 August 2023, I published a post on the Culbert Family History blog regarding Jeff's diagnosis with stage 4 gastric cancer. Click here if you missed it.

Jeff's wife, Kim (Culbert) Small (the 3x-great-granddaughter of John Culbert & Mary Ward) is here to update us on Jeff's situation. Take it away, Kim...

 

Kim (Culbert) Small

It’s been a very difficult year, starting in April 2023 when Jeff was diagnosed with stage 4 gastric cancer and told palliative chemotherapy was his only option. 

After only three months he experienced complications with treatments. His white blood cell count dropped to zero and Jeff was hospitalized. In addition, he had a rare response to the immunotherapy drug which resulted in endocarditis. He almost died. 

At one point, I was told they could keep Jeff alive for about three more days - long enough for our kids to get here from Calgary and New Zealand to say goodbye. When he miraculously pulled through that, we were told the cancer had most likely spread, and that Jeff was in the last six months of his life. We made preparations, and I took a Caregiver’s Leave in September as he was so weak.

Jeff stopped all treatments in October as the side effects were so severe, and he wanted to enjoy his remaining time with family for Christmas. He continued to focus on quality nutrition, tried various alternative protocols, and forced himself to go for walks twice daily. He kept a positive attitude and laughed often. 

On December 21st, we were told his PET scan showed “no activity” and his oncologist was referring us back to the surgeon for a scope as she couldn’t explain it. On 12 March 2024, the surgeon declared Jeff “cancer free”. We believe the love, prayers and support we received from our friends and family played a major part in this outcome. We are infinitely grateful for this gift and plan on living our very best lives, taking nothing for granted. 


Much love,
Kim & Jeff

Saturday, 23 December 2023

Merry Christmas!

 

Left to right: Mel Culbert, Ken Culbert, and Ivan Culbert, circa 1930. Three of the six sons of Myron and Effie Culbert of Poplar Farm in Biddulph Township near Lucan, Ontario, Canada.
 

Thank you to Culbert descendants worldwide for your interest in the Culbert Family History blog. All the best to you in 2024.

Saturday, 11 November 2023

Ivan Culbert - The Italian Campaign

 Phil Culbert (the great-great-grandson of John Culbert and Mary Ward) follows a Facebook group called "Canadians in the Italian Campaign in World War II."

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Imagine Phil's surprise when he found a photo of his father on that Facebook site! (see photo above.) I added the red arrow in the photo to indicate Sergeant Ivan Hector Culbert (1918-1979). Ivan is listening to General McNaughton addressing the officers and soldiers of the Royal Canadian Regiment, somewhere in Italy.


IVAN HECTOR CULBERT'S FAMILY TREE:

Ancestors:

John Culbert & Mary Ward (great-grandparents)

Richard Culbert & Jane Eleanor Fairhall (grandparents)

Myron Manford Culbert & Effie Pearl Taylor (parents)

Ivan Hector Culbert

Descendants (Children):

Victoria "Vicky" (Culbert) Schloendorf

Ian Richard Culbert

Phillip Myron Culbert

Elizabeth Christine Culbert (1955-2020).