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Wednesday, 5 August 2026

Jeff Culbert's "Theatre Boom Town"




Jeff Culbert (the great-great-grandson of John Culbert and Mary Ward) is the author of the newly published Theatre Boom Town: London, Ontario at the Turn of the Millennium (2002-2015).


In this collection, Jeff has compiled his writings about London's vibrant theatre scene from the period 2002-2015.

Jeff, who grew up in Lucan, Ontario and now makes his home in London, is an accomplished theatre director, playwright, actor, musician, and more. 

You can purchase a copy of Theatre Boom Town for $19.99 + tax through Volumes Publishing. Click here to place your order. Delivery to anywhere in Canada is $10.00. 

Click here to watch an interview with Jeff on CBC Radio's London Morning.


 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
JEFF CULBERT'S FAMILY TREE:
Ancestors:
John Culbert & Mary Ward (great-great-grandparents)
Richard Culbert & Jane Eleanor Fairhall (great-grandparents)
Myron Manford Culbert & Effie Pearl Taylor (grandparents)
Merton Manford Culbert & V. Muriel Hardy (parents)

Tuesday, 23 June 2026

Adrian Duncan Gras (14 May 1954 - 1 June 2026)

Adrian Duncan Gras was the great-great-grandson of John Culbert and Mary Ward.

In 1969 when he was 15 years old, Adrian set out on a six-year sailboat voyage with his parents and two of his siblings. Click here to read my post about the 50th anniversary of the voyage of the Merry Maiden.

The Gras family aboard the Merry Maiden upon their return in 1975. Left to right: Adrian, his brother Seaton, his father Ranny and his mother Ann. Sister Robn left the crew before their return.

Adrian died 1 June 2026, age 72. Click here to read the official obituary of Adrian Gras or continue reading as I have included it here with a few additions.

Adrian Gras Obituary:

Adrian Gras of Glenville, New York (formerly of Lincoln, Massachusetts; Pepperell, Massachusetts; Billerica, Massachusetts, and South Hero, Vermont)  finally jumped off this crazy train on June 1, 2026, at the age of 72. 

The man was known affectionately as “The Genius” and “That Guy Who Could Fix Anything.” He was born at home in Cambridge, Massachusetts and lived in one of the first solar houses in the country during his  childhood. 

At age 15 he was shanghaied on a voyage around the world with his family on their sailboat. The trip took 6 years; he sailed on and off for the rest of his life. 

He worked in various computer, construction, and agricultural capacities while building relationships with people who were to become his lifelong friends. 

When he was 37, his friend George’s sister Kate followed him home and she wound up keeping him for 35 years until his passing. While Kate was doing career and school stuff, Adrian stepped up to do absolutely everything else (including making her lunch every day and taking care of the dog) and helping out other family and friends whenever they called on him for something. Which was often. “What would Adrian do?” was an oft-used phrase among many households, as was “Don’t tell Adrian!” when somebody was performing a bubble gum fix instead of the correct one. 

Adrian and Kate spent their free time going to see live music, gunkholing around in a rowboat, being close with their friends and with her family, and visiting Cape Cod where they planned to retire together. 

Adrian had a moral compass that almost never wavered off of true north. He possessed the rare ability to accept people as they were, and not as he needed them to be. In his memory, please try to step up to do the right thing. If you find yourself doing otherwise, remember: “Adrian wouldn’t like that.” 

Besides his wife Kate and their feline menagerie, Adrian is survived by Kate's sisters Peggy (Rick), Charlotte (Malcolm), Amy (Jonathan), and Kate's brother Jerry (Laura). He loved his nephews and nieces very much. Adrian is also survived by his brothers Gerry Gras (Dana) and Seaton Gras (Candace) and his sister Robn Diekow (Gerhard). His parents predeceased him, as did his brother-in-law George, and his friends Nat, Ricky, Charlie, and Paula. 

Kate would like to acknowledge and express gratitude to the exceptional caregivers who assisted in his final months, Rosco Wilson and Heaven Luthers. Services may or may not be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, please make a contribution to a charity that supports animals, human rights, or the environment, and then hoist a pint for him.

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Adrian Duncan Gras' Family Tree:

Ancestors:

John Culbert & Mary Ward (great-great-grandparents)

Richard Culbert & Jane Eleanor Fairhall (great-grandparents)

Ethel Gertrude Culbert & Norman Scott Brien Gras (grandparents)

Ranulf Worcester "Ranny" Gras & Annette Elizabeth Peters (parents)

No Descendants.

Kate and Adrian


Sunday, 7 June 2026

Elizabeth "Betty" (Carscallen) Marmura (21 Sep 1937 - 31 May 2026)

Elizabeth "Betty" (Carscallen) Marmura was the great-great-granddaughter of John Culbert and Mary Ward.


Several years ago, I asked Betty if she would write an autobiographical sketch for the Culbert Family History Blog. She laughed and replied, "One of these days my kids can send you a bio of me, when I am no longer around to read it!" Here follows her obituary from MacIsaac Funeral Home in Antigonish, Nova Scotia:

Elizabeth ‘Betty’ Susan Marmura (nee Carscallen), passed away on May 31, 2026 at St Martha’s Regional Hospital in Antigonish, Nova Scotia at age 88. She is predeceased by her parents, Charles and Muriel (nee Mills) Carscallen, her dear brother Peter Carscallen, and her beloved husband Michael Marmura. She is survived by her three children, Heather, Stephen (Bridget), and Timothy, and her four grandchildren, Simon, Phoebe (Jake), Hana (Pablo), and Allison (Max), as well as cousins, nieces and nephews.

Betty was born in Oshawa, Ontario on September 21, 1937. Her father was an engineer in the Canadian Army and so the family moved frequently. She spent her childhood and teenage years in Merrickville, Whitby, Ottawa, and Kingston, Ontario, as well as two years in Germany. Betty graduated from McGill University in 1960 with a BSc in Agriculture and followed this with an MA in Economics from the University of Toronto in 1962. It is there that she met her best friend and husband Michael. Together they raised their children on Douglas Crescent in Toronto. During these busy years, Betty returned to school studying at Emmanuel College, graduating with her Master of Divinity in 1982. She then served as a United Church minister at St Luke’s United Church in downtown Toronto.

Betty was involved with Canadian history and politics from the time she was a teenager and after moving to Antigonish in 2009 returned to that passion. She was particularly interested in the process of Canadian confederation and spent many happy hours in the provincial archives in Saint John and Fredericton. She was a voracious reader and never stopped learning, taking workshops in Truth and Reconciliation, courses in Maritime history at St. Francis Xavier University, as well as studying Arabic and Sign language in hopes of furthering her communication with Syrian newcomers and the young men at her son Tim’s home at L’Arche.

Apart from her keen intellect, she was a wise and thoughtful soul. Anyone who encountered Betty knew of her incredible integrity and her indomitable energy that she put toward those whom she cared about. She worked tirelessly for justice for Palestinians both as a clergy person and a citizen, even delivering a related address at the UN. She was a fierce advocate for those with intellectual disabilities celebrating and honouring their lives while working toward real and meaningful inclusion. She was a loving mother and grandmother. Her exceptional generosity went well beyond her family and extended to her friends, relatives, the community, and the natural world around her. Her spirit and love will remain with us always for as she wrote: “Love abides, it is all that abides and what more could we ask?”

We are grateful to all those who supported her care over the last few years. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to L’Arche Antigonish, Oxfam (For Oxfam donations please use this link and mention in memory of Elizabeth Marmura. http://secured.oxfam.ca/page/164200/donate/1?ea.tracking.id=website-redirect) or Doctors without Borders where they will be directed to relief for Gaza and the West Bank. (http://action.msf.ca/site/Donation2df_id=5640&mfc_pref=T&5640.donation=form1&s_locale=en_CA)

A private graveside ceremony took place June 2nd with burial in St. Paul’s/St. James cemetery, Antigonish. There will be a celebration of her life and reception on June 20, from 1-4 at the Royal Canadian Legion Branch 59, 75 St. Ninian St. Antigonish, open to all. We look forward to sharing our thoughts and memories with those who can attend. If you cannot be there and would like to share a story, we will be happy to read those at the celebration. The microphone will be on starting at 2:00.

Celebration of Life

1:00 pm - 4:00 pm
Saturday, June 20, 2026
Royal Canadian Legion Branch 95
75 St. Ninian Street
Antigonish, Nova Scotia, Canada
 
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Betty Carscallen with her great-grandmother, Jane Eleanor (Fairhall) Culbert of Lucan, Ontario in 1937.
 
Betty Carscallen (left) and her brother Peter Carscallen (right) with their great-grandmother, Jane Eleanor (Fairhall) Culbert of Lucan, Ontario. 1940s.

 
BETTY (CARSCALLEN) MARMURA'S FAMILY TREE:

Ancestors: 

John Culbert & Mary Ward (great-great-grandparents)

Richard Culbert & Jane Fairhall (great-grandparents)

Hulda May Culbert & Charles Rupert Carscallen (grandparents)

Charles Newton Carscallen & Muriel Adelaide Mills (parents)

Descendants (Children):

Heather 

Stephen

Timothy 

You can read about Betty's father, Charles Newton Carscallen by clicking here. You can also read about her amazing grandparents, Hulda May Culbert and Rev. Charles Rupert Carscallen by clicking here.

Sunday, 17 March 2024

The Luck of the Irish

If anyone can be said to have "the luck of the Irish" on this Saint Patrick's Day, it's Jeff Small.

Jeff Small of Huntsville, Ontario, Canada

You'll recall that on 19 August 2023, I published a post on the Culbert Family History blog regarding Jeff's diagnosis with stage 4 gastric cancer. Click here if you missed it.

Jeff's wife, Kim (Culbert) Small (the 3x-great-granddaughter of John Culbert & Mary Ward) is here to update us on Jeff's situation. Take it away, Kim...

 

Kim (Culbert) Small

It’s been a very difficult year, starting in April 2023 when Jeff was diagnosed with stage 4 gastric cancer and told palliative chemotherapy was his only option. 

After only three months he experienced complications with treatments. His white blood cell count dropped to zero and Jeff was hospitalized. In addition, he had a rare response to the immunotherapy drug which resulted in endocarditis. He almost died. 

At one point, I was told they could keep Jeff alive for about three more days - long enough for our kids to get here from Calgary and New Zealand to say goodbye. When he miraculously pulled through that, we were told the cancer had most likely spread, and that Jeff was in the last six months of his life. We made preparations, and I took a Caregiver’s Leave in September as he was so weak.

Jeff stopped all treatments in October as the side effects were so severe, and he wanted to enjoy his remaining time with family for Christmas. He continued to focus on quality nutrition, tried various alternative protocols, and forced himself to go for walks twice daily. He kept a positive attitude and laughed often. 

On December 21st, we were told his PET scan showed “no activity” and his oncologist was referring us back to the surgeon for a scope as she couldn’t explain it. On 12 March 2024, the surgeon declared Jeff “cancer free”. We believe the love, prayers and support we received from our friends and family played a major part in this outcome. We are infinitely grateful for this gift and plan on living our very best lives, taking nothing for granted. 


Much love,
Kim & Jeff

Saturday, 19 August 2023

Support for the Small Family

 Kim (Culbert) Small's family needs our support.

Kim (the 3x-great-granddaughter of John Culbert & Mary Ward) lives in Huntsville, Ontario with her husband, Jeff and their children, Sam, Connor, and Sophie. 

Kim (Culbert) Small

Kim has endured much sorrow in the past few years. She lost her father, Greg Culbert of Campbell River, British Columbia in 2020, and her mother, Wendy Louise (Hamilton) Oke of Huntsville, Ontario in 2022.   

Kim's husband, Jeff Small has been diagnosed with inoperable stage 4 gastric cancer. 

Jeff Small

The family is under significant financial strain due to the fact that Jeff has been unable to work. Their hope is to give Jeff any added peace of mind in the days and weeks ahead. To date, they have paid $7,000 for additional testing in hopes he may qualify for a clinical trial, incurred the cost of flying family home to help with his care, and various alternative treatments.

Please click here for details on their GoFundMe fundraising campaign. Any amount you can contribute, no matter how small, will make a difference.

Thank you.

Kimberley Tara (Culbert) Small's Family Tree:
Ancestors:
John Culbert & Mary Ward (great-great-great-grandparents)
Richard Culbert & Jane Fairhall (great-great-grandparents)
Myron Culbert & Effie Taylor (great-grandparents)
Kenneth Arthur Culbert & Helen Needham (grandparents)
Brian Gregory Culbert & Wendy Louise Hamilton (parents)

Sunday, 12 February 2023

Effie Culbert's Summer Kitchen

Remember the photo of Mel Culbert pretending to chop off the head of his little brother, Earl Culbert? (click here if you missed it.)

Here's another shot, probably from that same day at Poplar Farm near Lucan, Ontario. However, this time there's no threat of decapitation . . .

Earl Culbert (left) with his big brother Milward "Mel" Culbert and the family dog, standing at the back of the house at Poplar Farm located on Lot 19, Concession 2 (The Coursey Line) in Biddulph Township near Lucan, Ontario, Canada. Photo probably taken in the late 1930s. Click on photo to enlarge it.

I asked my siblings, Terry Culbert and Dana (Culbert) Garrett if they knew the purpose of that old wooden building attached to the back of the house. They told me it was Effie Culbert's summer kitchen. 

Effie Pearl (Taylor) Culbert, the wife of Myron Culbert, was the mother of the above-pictured Mel and Earl, along with four other sons: Cliff, Ken, Ivan, and Mert. 

Myron Culbert and Effie Taylor on their wedding day, 14 June 1911. Much cooking and cleaning and mending lay in store for our Effie.

It was here in her summer kitchen that Effie prepared the harvest from their abundance of fruits and vegetables. Effie canned, pickled and preserved their home-grown bounty. Not only was there enough produce to feed their large family, they also sold some of their produce at the Covent Garden Market in London, Ontario; a journey of over 20 miles (32 km) from their home.

See the pump on the right hand side of the summer kitchen photo? That pump was connected to an underground well, and it was the Culbert family's source of water for drinking, cooking and bathing. Like other farmers in the area, Myron and Effie didn't have indoor plumbing and running water so they had to go outdoors to the pump for all their water needs.

The water pump at Poplar Farm. Pumps, made of cast iron, drew the water up through an underground well. You had to push up and down on the long handle for the water to come out the spout.

Off that cement deck, Effie chopped the heads off the various fowl that she raised, such as chickens and turkeys. She plucked and prepared them for supper. This was many decades before anyone in our family became a vegan. Meat was the meal of choice for farm families at that time.

Effie's turkeys. You can see the summer kitchen in the background, attached to the house.

Effie would have spent many hours in her summer kitchen. Her work never ended. 

I've been reading Effie's diaries which include entries from 1931 through to her death in 1957. She made note of what she cooked, baked and/or canned, pickled or preserved on any given day, and listed her daily household chores. I've randomly chosen some entries from July 1939.

Effie's diary entry for July 11, 1939:

Earl and I went to the bush and got 3 quarts of blackberries. Merton picked cherries and I did 8 quarts.

The next day:

The boys and I picked 4 pails of peas. I canned some and done the ironing. 

A sampling of other July entries include:

I made pies and biscuits and cherry jam. 

I got up at 4:00 a.m. and churned butter and cleaned up the front part. I did 3 quarts of berries.

Merton and I did all the milking.

We went to church twice.

I ironed and made gooseberry and raspberry jam.

We threshed the wheat. I had 11 men for supper. I made the first apple pies.

I made chokecherry jam and jelly and mended a pair of pants for Cliff.

I cleaned up the upstairs and canned peas. 

I am trying to feed three little pigs. I washed and got some ironing done.

The above were just some of things she did during the course of any particular day that month.

Raising a family of six boys on a farm was a thankless and endless series of chores. Occasionally at the end of the day, Effie made time to listen to the radio. This seems to have been her only form of relaxation although I'm sure she had her hands busy mending at the same time as she was listening. 

Here's to Effie Culbert and her summer kitchen!

Thursday, 2 February 2023

Off With Their Heads!

Fed up with your little brother? Mel Culbert shows you how to remedy the situation! ...

Milward Taylor "Mel" Culbert (1920-1958) with his little brother, Earl Culbert (1929-1994) on Poplar Farm near Lucan, Ontario, Canada.

 

Yes, that's an AXE in his hand! Little brother Earl's neck is on the chopping block. 

Another day of fun on the farm in the late 1930s.

Mel and Earl and their four brothers, Cliff, Ken, Ivan and Mert were the sons of Myron Manford Culbert and Effie Pearl Taylor. The six boys were the great-grandsons of John Culbert & Mary Ward.


FAMILY TREE FOR THE SIX SONS OF MYRON AND EFFIE CULBERT:

Ancestors:

John Culbert & Mary Ward (great-grandparents)

Richard Culbert & Jane Eleanor Fairhall (grandparents)

Myron Manford Culbert & Effie Pearl Taylor (parents).

Sunday, 18 December 2022

Ivan Culbert Receives a Christmas Parcel from Atkinson’s School, and Writes a Letter from England


The following letter, written by Ivan Hector Culbert (the great-grandson of John Culbert & Mary Ward) was published in the Exeter Times-Advocate on 19 March 1942.

During the Second World War, while Ivan was overseas, he received a Christmas parcel from the pupils of S.S. No. 2 Biddulph, also known as Atkinson's School, and their teacher, Mr. Skinner.

S.S. No. 2 Biddulph also known as Atkinson's School in Biddulph Township, Ontario, Canada.

Ivan replied to the teacher and pupils with a letter, sent from a dug-out somewhere on the coast of England.















IVAN HECTOR CULBERT'S FAMILY TREE:

Ancestors:

John Culbert & Mary Ward (great-grandparents)

Richard Culbert & Jane Eleanor Fairhall (grandparents)

Myron Manford Culbert & Effie Pearl Taylor (parents)

Ivan Hector Culbert (1918-1979)

Descendants (Children):

Victoria "Vicky" (Culbert) Schloendorf

Ian Richard Culbert

Phillip Myron Culbert

Elizabeth Christine Culbert (1955-2020).

Friday, 11 November 2022

The Kindness of a Culbert Soldier

 The photo below shows Sergeant Ivan Hector Culbert (1918-1979), the great-grandson of John Culbert and Mary Ward. Ivan joined the Royal Canadian Regiment on 8 January 1940 and served overseas until he returned home in January 1946 with his war bride, Elvira Hutchings.

Photo courtesy of Ivan Culbert’s son, Phil Culbert.

Ivan was stationed in England when this photo was taken, far from his home on Poplar Farm near Lucan, Ontario. The little British boy with a tin can was begging for money to get something to eat. Ivan kindly gave the boy a coin.

We don’t know the identity of the boy. One wonders if he was part of Operation Pied Piper in which the British government relocated millions of children out of urban centres to rural locations in Britain and even overseas. It was assumed that the risk of bombing would be lower in the countryside, and so the children would be out of harm’s way.

Mothers were reluctant to be separated from their children but were told it was in their best interest. Propaganda such as the poster below discouraged mothers from the temptation to bring their children back to the city …

Long lines of children were led to bus and train stations to begin their journeys to the countryside. Each child was given a box containing a gas mask and a few personal belongings. Each child wore a label with their name on it, pinned to their coat, in the same way that you would label your luggage.

Children about to board a train to the countryside, wearing name labels pinned to their coats.

The character of Paddington Bear was inspired by author Michael Bond’s recollections of watching newsreels of children being evacuated.

"When I was small, I had memories of children being evacuated from London with a label around their necks and all their possessions in a suitcase, and this became part of Paddington," said Michael Bond.

"Paddington Bear was a refugee with a label - 'Please look after this bear. Thank you', and he had a little suitcase."

BBC History describes the man in charge of evacuation, Sir John Anderson, as a cold, inhuman character with little understanding of the emotional upheaval that might be created by evacuation. There was no careful selection process as to how and where the children were placed when they arrived in the countryside. Children were billeted with hosts who were paid, and who were invited to “take their pick” as the children lined up against walls or in the village halls.



Life in rural areas was a shock for urban children, unaccustomed to the lack of indoor plumbing and running water. Many children had never seen farm animals. Most children were not told where they would be going, why they were going nor why their parents weren’t coming with them. It was a time of adventure for some but for others it was traumatic and lonely.

After the war, many children returned to homes which were missing a parent who had died in service or as a result of the bombings. In some cases, children lost both their parents. After years away from their families, some of the children who had been quite young at the time of the evacuation didn’t recognize their own parents.

Looking back on Operation Pied Piper, it was concluded that wrenching children away from their families for the duration of the war was more traumatic than the risk of bombing. Thankfully, many children had been spared the horrors of bombing that took place in the cities. However, evacuation wasn’t always as safe as it seemed. Hundreds of evacuees were killed while enroute to safe havens. Some were killed after being relocated, by minefields or other wartime hazards.

Many children were fortunate in that they had positive experiences with their hosts who treated them well and with kindness. Some children enjoyed their new rural homes so much that they didn’t want to go back to the city. Sadly, that wasn’t the case for all children. Some suffered from ill treatment and sexual abuse.

What became of the little boy in our photo? We don’t know his name or his story. Was he part of Operation Pied Piper? Was he orphaned? We can only hope that he had a chance to grow up safe and loved. And we can note that a Canadian soldier – a descendant of John Culbert and Mary Ward - cared enough to give that little boy a coin.

In 2018, Phil Culbert wrote a tribute to his father, Ivan Hector Culbert on the Culbert Family History blog. If you missed it, click here.

Ivan Culbert

IVAN HECTOR CULBERT'S FAMILY TREE:

Ancestors:

John Culbert & Mary Ward (great-grandparents)

Richard Culbert & Jane Eleanor Fairhall (grandparents)

Myron Manford Culbert & Effie Pearl Taylor (parents)

Ivan Hector Culbert

Descendants (Children):

Victoria "Vicky" (Culbert) Schloendorf

Ian Richard Culbert

Phillip Myron Culbert

Elizabeth Christine Culbert (1955-2020).